The ‘Right Person, Wrong Time’ Dilemma: When Love Isn’t Enough
Love does not begin or end as we think it does. Love is a battle, a war; love is a growing up.James Baldwin He looks at her across the table—her laugh, her spark, everything he’s ever wanted—and his heart says, this is it. But then life crashes in: a job across the country, a family […]
The Power Dynamics of Dating versus Marriage: Why He Prefers the Former
“Every relationship is fundamentally a power struggle, and the individual in power is whoever likes the other person less.” – Chuck Klosterman Imagine this: he’s charming, attentive, and totally into you—until the “M-word” comes up. Suddenly, he’s dodging the topic like a hot potato, clinging to the freedom of dating like it’s his lifeline. Sound familiar? […]
The Comfort Zone Trap: Why He’s Happy to Date, But Won’t Put a Ring on It
“A man who eats honey but refuses to tend to the bees will soon lose his sweetness.”– Igbo Proverb (Nigeria) You’ve been in a relationship for years. You’ve built memories, met his family, and maybe even started living together. Everything seems perfect—except for one thing. There’s no proposal or serious talk about marriage, and every […]
He’s Not That into Commitment: Why Some Men Date but Don’t Propose
“A man who does not propose is like a river that never reaches the sea.”– Swahili proverb You’ve invested time, love, and effort into your relationship. You’ve built a life together, shared countless moments, and maybe even discussed the future. Yet, every time the subject of marriage comes up, he sidesteps it with phrases like, […]
The Impact of Economic Factors on Marriage Decisions in Nigeria
“An Egyptian proverb states that if you marry a monkey because of his wealth, the money goes, the monkey stays the same.” Marriage, a significant milestone in life, is not only about love and companionship. In Nigeria, where cultural expectations strongly emphasize the importance of marriage, economic factors increasingly play a critical role in determining […]
The Role of Media in Shaping Perceptions of Love and Money in Marriage
The world is a complex place, and the media’s influence in its representation and its power of communication and interpretation is a remarkable amplifier of emotions and illusions.Tariq Ramadan The media is among the most potent forces in shaping our thoughts, beliefs, and expectations, especially regarding love and relationships. From Hollywood movies to television dramas […]
Financial Implications of Investing in a Partner
“Courage taught me no matter how bad a crisis gets … any sound investment will eventually pay off.” — Carlos Slim Helu. Investing financially in a relationship is a sensitive topic, especially when supporting or investing in a romantic partner. While financial involvement can reflect deep commitment, it also brings risks that can affect the […]
Understanding Relationship Dynamics: The Role of Investment
Look for someone who wants to support your visions, learn from you, watch you succeed, invest in you, and fall in love with you every day.livelifehappy.com Relationships thrive on a blend of love, trust, and mutual understanding, but at their core, successful partnerships are all about investment. This investment comes in many forms, whether the […]
The Psychology of Love vs. Money in Relationships
Instead of loving people and using money, people often love money and use people: Wayne Gerard Trotman. Introduction Regarding relationships, the two forces of love and money often pull at opposite ends of the spectrum. Many individuals are torn between pursuing a relationship based on love and emotional connection or one rooted in financial security. While […]
Financial Compatibility: A Key to Lasting Relationships
“Nowadays love is a matter of chance, matrimony a matter of money and divorce a matter of course” — Helen Rowland. Financial compatibility is a crucial yet often overlooked factor in building a lasting relationship. Money matters play a significant role in the success or failure of relationships, especially in marriages. While love, trust, and emotional […]
